Latest update as of Nov 26, 2024

  • Another day

    Yesterday I went into the lions den by myself. I didn't have anyone. They showed up with lawyers and mom/Granma. I had noone. I didn't think I could do it walking in and seeing who the judge was. He knew my husband and had given him custody of my step son. But I still stood up for myself despite being outmatched. I didn't know what questions to ask or how to object. Nothing but telling my truth. Unfortunately it wasn't enough and I was not granted an extension. My dv advocate couldn't find a shelter that was open I could go to. He got the kids off the bus before I could. I came back home. I have not withdrawn any funds still bc I have stated it will only be used for what I asked. There's still court dates pending. Please keep me in your thoughts I appreciate everyone.


About this fundraiser

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On 11/13 I got an emergency protective order against my spouse. The following day 11/14  I got it extended to a preliminary along with one for my 17 year old step son following in his dad's footsteps. It did not prevent my 17 year old step son from antagonizing me and busting out a window. Even though I am granted possession of the house in the protective order I do not feel safe here. This is complicated by the fact they have a very large family and famous law enforcement as well my brother in law who involved himself in a criminal matter already. So I am scared. I need to get out of my home and to an undisclosed location before the court day 11-25 and the current protective order expires and I can't predict if I can get it extended. While I'm hopeful it's continued it does not obligate my husband to pay any of the bills. I can't afford to live here with no income. I have been a stay at home mom since March 2013. I am seeking employment but trying to do that and save to afford my place won't happen as quickly as I need for it to. Bottom line above everythin though is I no longer feel safe in my home. I have two younger children who are also on the protective order who will be benefited from this as well. We need a safe space! I'm hoping this will be enough if I can raise it to get a place and move our things quickly. I hate asking but I'm desperate, scared, and completely alone. I have no family. So any help is appreciated. Any share is appreciated. If you're only just reading this it's appreciated. 

 

Organized by

Jennifer Haga

Chester, VA, USA

Organizer