Latest update as of Dec 01, 2025

  • I still am in the Frederick area. Not.sure why it says ND and it wont let me change/edit it


About this fundraiser

I’ve always tried to handle life on my own, and asking for help is something I rarely do. But right now, I’m facing a moment where swallowing my pride is the only way to keep moving forward for my kids and our future.

A few years ago, I was granted full custody of my children through an emergency custody hearing. When the truth came out about what they had been experiencing, all I could think about was getting them somewhere safe—home with me. The relief I felt when they returned to my care is something I’ll never forget. Even though the transition happened fast and I wasn’t fully prepared financially, I did everything in my power to give them the stability, love, and healing they deserved.

Like any parent, especially a single father, I put them first every day—no matter the cost. Helping them rebuild emotionally and physically took time, patience, and every resource I had. My business slowed down as I focused on supporting them, and while it was difficult, I don’t regret a single moment.

But life has a way of testing you. About a month ago, my truck broke down unexpectedly. The repairs were far beyond what I could afford. That aling with the age and milage on it, I had no choice but to sell it for parts. Losing my vehicle meant losing my ability to reach job sites, pick up materials, and keep my business alive. I lost future work and struggled to complete the jobs I still had.

The situation has affected my living arrangements as well. Right now, my kids are staying with family so they can be somewhere stable while I stay closer to job locations to finish the work I still have, and I’m grateful for that — but financially, I’m completely on my own.

I am close to finishing the remaining jobs and will need to transition back into working for a company. Before I can do that — and before I can reunite with my kids daily — I need a reliable vehicle. Nothing new or fancy, just something dependable enough to get me to work and to get my kids to and from their appointments, activities, school events, and everything else they need.

I’m asking for support to help me purchase a used vehicle so I can rebuild our stability and give my children the consistent routine they deserve. A vehicle would allow me to work reliably again, provide for them properly, and bring us back under one roof where we belong.

Any help, no matter the amount, truly makes a difference. Thank you for taking the time to read my story and for any kindness you’re able to offer. It means more to me and my kids than I can put into words.

Organized by

Raymond Boccabella

Grand Forks, ND, USA

Organizer