Some of the family  puting  this fundraiser to raise money to get my lil brother a head stone , so we can have a place to lay his ashes to rest an so our family can have a lil more closure. also so we have a place to go visit him... He has been gone for 2 n a half years an I myself need this for him so I can have sone kind of closure an have a place to go talk to my brother he was my best friend an I even raised him a lil it was always me and him no matter what ..  my mom I love her an would give anything to take all this heartache an pain away an I get her not  wanting  to get in a hurry  but  rush things cause as she has said about it , because  then it' all becomes real that he really gone!!!  when we finally do get  she ready but she not ..  but we really need this healing part of  our live