This fundraiser Is for our daughter, Elizabeth./ Lizzy,nowAGE30 , lizzy has been married 15 years & a stay at home mother as her husband supported her financially since they gave birth to their 1st daughter at a very young age as well as them getting married. She now has 2 beautiful daughter  15 & 8.. back in 2021 Lizzie decided to go threw baratric weight loss surgery. After few years before and situations she had gained more weight. Lizzy Has always struggled with self confidence (esteem) & self love some. As well as depression since her mother died when she was 17. WELL After being overally excited & waiting she got her surgery in Aug 2021 she bought all sorts of things for her post op and everything to continue her weightloss new life change. But sadly it took a horrible turn, After surgery, Lizzie lost a lot of weight too fast. She couldn't hold anything down and was throwing up a lot. She had lots of doctor's appointments and was in and out of the hospital constantly for a year and was consistently getting worse every month or so in the next years (2022-2023). She suffered from severe malnutrition pain and more the malnutrition caused her to eventually have seizures. She eventually fell back into a deep depression where she didn't even have the energy or strength to try anymore. As she couldn't use her muscles and had too much pain in her body. Lizzy eventually had to get in a wheelchair from not being able to hold her weight & after multiple falls she is not able to walk at all.. as well as after suffering malnutrition severely so long & the seizures lizzy mental status has declined and been highly affected, as she can not Speak very well or like she used tobeable too at all, she can not ver well understand/comprehend things, her memory has declined as she is very forgetful , short term and long term she has a hard time dealing with emotions as well..Well as she lived with her husband /kids &his family. They tried to give her support, taking turns helping her & with nutrition easier things to eat brushing her hair ect TRYING to do the right things to get her help on top of taking her to the hospital on repeated trips or calling 911/ems.. But after a year of this continuing to get worse, they gave up. They started leaving her alone. Her kids started to not beable to show much love for her. He was leaving her without food not bathing her or showering her letting her armpit hair grow out n much more then after 1 night Being alone, someone broke into their Apartment and tried to rob them. While she was home and lizzie was physically harmed. They moved somewhere else after that But the treatment towards her got even worse She became completely neglected and felt so unloved exp after being left alone Unable to take care of herself for weeks at a time and even on(2023) christmas,so after 1-2 more hospital trips she then was admitted to being overdosed on Tylenol into a coma in ICU, After Lizzie finally woke 1.5 week later, the hospital transferred her to a better hospital 1.5 hrs away to continue her care. When she arrived there, lizzy learned that she had no visitors even though it was not the first time & that the medical staff nor her could reach her husband or anyone she lived with they completely left her with nothing not even  socks or shoes & with her phone turned off, When Lizzie was finally able to reach her husband He said he was done with her and finally for divorce. She wasn't allowed to come back home neither and he was pushing to get her evicted And continued with the verbal abuse , telling her he was done n her to say it too & horrible comments that she can roll herself in the street , i see how he has gave up or dont know what else to do but everything he did/said was soo wrong on top of downgrading her n telling her she was now stranded n stuck without her family as well as having His oldest daughter tell her she was not allowed to come back home and tell her to find somewhere else to go. But yet noone ever contacted us or asked us for help before this let alone the call we got Was we needed to come up to make funeral arrangements? And that is how we found out about all of this..  So she is still being treated in the hospitals, right now since the beginnin of January. But as that was the only family she has had in that state since she moved with him & his family after they first got marrie  & had their child young. I mean ofcourse i visited every year or few times a yr or as much as i could n stayed in touch with her but as that goes Her only other family is in the South which is me--(younger sister) (shes very close with).-- Her father & her now stepmother & all the rest of her family is states away way up north ..  so due to the state of condition She is in lizzy did sign over Me/Father and her step mom as her POAs & guardian. I am newlywed also now with a young stepson in my household i help take care of now as well n we both work full time & as I'm still paying bk loans from my marriage and other situations that came up in past years.

 Me n my wife barely can make it on our income I mean, we make ends meet and get our bills paid n all that But after our marriage, my wife lost all her benefits as well. And we just do not have any extra money..  but in this situation I will be getting my daughter From the hospital and to bring her back down. South where her home is. The hospital has already transferred her. Once to give me some time to get money to make it up there and to get her. I made this fun raiser because with her not haVing any things at all And all of the medical needs she is needing down here medical help is much harder to come by & is not covered like it is up north.my Wife even had horrible trouble when she moved down here to marry me just with a few meds nothing like this (she lived in the state where lizzy lived). My wife has been doing a lot as well as me to try to get the help we will need to help her as well. But alot is waiting games as well. But I would greatly appreciate any donations made to this fund my daughter is my world This is so heartbreaking to me and i'm so lost with it all After I lost her mother twelve years ago & Was all alone during her death and raising my two children. This is one thing I was hoping I would never have to go through again. I am blessed to have my newly wed wife and son in my life but I'm just not at a position to go threw all this exp rn talk about getting hit , but she is my daughter so I'm here! And as long as I'm alive I'm here! But from Having car issues (car broke down 2 days ago) to needing to travel 700 miles to go get her and transfer her down here to get her some stuff so she can have clothes and essentials, as he will not tell us or give us her things I need To be able to get the in home care that she will need until I can find a place to help her impatient , even though my daughter is only just now 30yrs old And most of these places are for elderly that hurts me even more as I'm her father 55 I couldn't even understand the pain in her heart right now as it's in mine.. But I will also need to get her mental health help. Shell need to go thru the divorce otherwise shes stuck as her husband income is to high anyway.Probably a few x rays scans, & wait on dissability and more. And right now , as i've mentioned , it's hard enough to keep me in my wife's head above water and not go into debt that this surely will. I'm just so lost without words, 💔 Overwhelmed with my mind constantly going I think my new wife every day for all that she is doing as well and has done to help her and us with the situation. But there's still only so much we can do,My wife makes half or less of what I even make. But she has applied for medicaid Started her dissability application Even though we cannot finish that application without getting her records 700 miles away, And needing Lizzie's help & with her memory and her mental state. She's not in the state of mind to even help us as she has not been able to. Saying she don't know or don't remember so it makes it even harder just to get the application in, she's made calls did research. Well, anyway, I wanted to make this a short story, but I was. You can see how my mind runs And I still tried to make this as short as possible.. But i'm really praying right now to god and to any of you If there is please any good people in this world anymore , this would be appreciated more than you know & anything is helpful I absolutely just can't Barry my daughter I just can't watch my daughter die.i can't watch her suffer n helpless Like I said , we are absolutely doing whatever we can in our power but a donation or to help this fundraiser reach in scroll would be an absolute miracle and the biggest blessing I could ask for in my life at this point..  Thank u if u could please help donate To help my daughter , see life again and help her try to get a life again, Or help a father and need trying to help his daughter, again God Bless You & Thank You So much.. I'm all She Has left..  this is my current situation jan 29/2024) ) and I made this as my last option & praying!