I need help paying for my dad's funeral. His wishes are to be buried and plus he's a vet. I'm running out of time because all last week I was making phone calls trying to do what I can. I'm his next of kin, his only child and he's not married.  Plus to put his obituary in the paper plus the funeral home won't put the obituary in the paper just the notice. I live in NY state where he use to live and he lives in NC where he will be rested at.