💔 The Fight for Oliver: A Mother’s Plea for Justice and Safety

My name is Arwyn (formerly known as Andrea), and I am a mother in the midst of the most painful and relentless battle of my life—a fight to protect my son, Oliver, after going through a tumultuous divorce following years of extreme abuse, rape, and assault that no one should ever have to endure.

For over four years, I have been actively fighting—through courts, systems, and the silence of those who were supposed to help. I have cried out for justice, begged for safety, and risked everything to shield my son from further harm. But the truth is, I cannot do this alone anymore. I need help.

This fundraiser is not just for legal costs. It is for our survival.

I am raising funds to:

🛡️ Secure legal representation to continue the fight for Oliver in court

🏡 Relocate to a safer, more supportive state where I can finally access services and protection as a mother of a disabled child

💔 Recover from the physical, emotional, and financial toll this battle has taken on both of us

I am autistic, and I live with dyslexia and dyscalculia, which has made navigating this journey even more challenging. Despite all of this, I’ve never stopped fighting for my son. He is my world. He is my light. He is the reason I wake up and keep going.

100% of the funds raised will go directly to our relocation and legal costs.
I am not asking for charity—I am asking for a chance to finally protect my sweet baby boy the way every mother should be allowed to.

If you can help—whether by donating, sharing, or simply bearing witness to our story—you are becoming part of this fight. You are helping us rewrite the ending. You are standing with a mother and a child who refuse to be forgotten.

With all my heart,
Arwyn Phoenix
A Mother. A Fighter. An Advocate for Oliver.