We Lost my nice and my olds child  and mother in law on dec 18, last year in car accident  .     My nice was the only one that left 4 kids behind  all under the age of ten . We were helping her when she was here with us and now we have to play a much big role financially mentally because that what  family s do . But its hard sometime  , just asking for little help . We have 3 kids of are own all teens .because  with or with out help it has to get done .  It doesn't hurt to ask for little help . Thank you and God bless