After 3 kids, my last one being in My forties, my body has been used and abused. My confidence has plummeted. I’ve exercised and ate heathy in hopes things would return to normal. BUT it has not and I’ve been told more than once it won’t. I need to feel goof about my self and in my own skin to thrive and be all I can be. I’ve not worn a bathing suit or ANYTHING tight for 3 years because it shows off my (what I can describe myself as) potato body on sticks. my boobs after nursing have had gravity pull them to my navel. My abdomen muscles are so far apart after a 10# baby (diastasis recti) that only surgery will pull them back together. Which is also in turn making me look like I’m permanently prego. I know I should be grateful for my body giving its all for my beautiful babies and I am but I am a human and need my own self worth to be all I can for them. I am asking for help since I could never come up with the money to ever get myself back. thank you! my mental health thanks you. My body thanks you. My life thanks you.