About this fundraiser

 

“Help Sheba Become a Mom Through Donor IVF”

Heyyy, I’m Sheba — 50 years fabulous, full of hope, and on a mission to become a mom through IVF with donor eggs. Just typing that makes my heart flutter (and maybe my blood pressure rise a little), but here we are. I've come too far to turn back now.

For as long as I can remember, I’ve dreamed of being a mother. That dream didn’t fade as the years went by — it got louder. Life didn’t stick to the timeline I imagined (whose does?), but my heart has never stopped yearning for this.

Now, science is giving me a second chance to build the family I’ve always wanted. IVF with donor eggs is my best — and only — option. It’s beautiful. It’s miraculous. It’s also... expensive. Up to $30,000 expensive.

I’ve already completed my bloodwork and am prepping for a saline sonogram (fancy name for “let’s make sure the baby hotel is in good shape”). Next up: choosing a donor. I’m SO close — I just need a little help to cross the finish line.

Becoming a parent would mean the world to me. I have so much love, patience, and really good bedtime story voices to give. I believe in this future child with every fiber of my being — now I just need help getting them here.

If you’re able to donate, thank you from the depths of my soul. If you can’t but feel moved, please consider sharing this with someone who might want to help. Every dollar, every share, every kind word counts.

Thank you for standing with me. I truly believe this is going to happen — with a little science, a lot of love, and the support of people like you.

With all my heart,
Sheba

 

Organized by

Sheba Ruff

Charlotte, NC, USA

Organizer