Help Lay Alan James White to Rest

On October 12th, 2025, our beloved father Alan James White passed away at the age of 63 after a long and difficult battle for his life. Alan was born on May 11th, 1962, and had been on life support for 52 days following a cardiac arrest that left him without oxygen for several minutes, causing severe brain damage. Despite the incredible fight he put up and the hope we held onto each day, his body could no longer endure the struggle.

Alan was a very funny man who could make anyone laugh, even on their worst days. His humor and spirit brightened every room he walked into, and he leaves behind so many memories filled with laughter and love. He was a father, brother, and friend who meant the world to those who knew him.

He leaves behind four children — Nancy, Lisa, Christopher, and Charles — who are doing their best to cope with both the emotional and financial hardship of losing him. Our family recently faced another devastating loss when our grandfather passed away in July, and his funeral expenses totaled nearly $20,000. Because of that, we now have no funds left to give Alan the service and burial he deserves.

We are reaching out with heavy hearts to ask for help with his funeral costs. Any donation, no matter how small, will go directly toward giving our dad a dignified farewell and a peaceful resting place. If you can’t donate, please share this page to help spread the word — every bit of support helps more than you can imagine.

From the bottom of our hearts, thank you for your love, compassion, and kindness during this incredibly painful time.

🕊️ Rest in Peace, Alan James White — forever loved, forever remembered.
— Nancy, Lisa, Christopher, and Charles