Hello, for security reasons, I can’t state my name but I am a mother of 2 who is desperately trying to get out of an abusive marriage. I have a significant amount of debt that is hindering me from leaving since it’s a shared debt and I’m obligated to pay the whole thing. Even my goal isn’t enough but it would be the biggest stepping stone. I’m fearful of leaving upright out of fear of retaliation. I don’t have any family here or any close friends who can help and I’m too ashamed to share quests happening in my personal life with  people I work with. Please help me.