Latest update as of Jul 04, 2024

  • With a heavy heart….

    It is with a heavy heart that we share the news that Pam lost her battle with CLL (chronic lymphocytic leukemia) on July 3rd at 7:36pm. A lot has happened since our last update and we apologize for the lack of updating but our focus has been all on Pam and her comfort. So, doctors pushed Pam’s transplant to August because she needed time to gain strength before that transplant was going to take place. Meg, Mel, and Pam were living in Baltimore close to the hospital so she could easily be taken back in when need be. The frequency of those visits became more and more to then staying at the hospital again. She most certainly had the will to fight but unfortunately that wasn’t enough to keep her body strong enough. Through this battle she also got sick with pneumonia which was really taking her down as you can imagine. A few weeks ago, Pam made the hard decision to move over to hospice and go home to Virginia. She wanted to be out of the hospital and in the comforts of her own space.
    This disease is so horrible and many times we asked God why. There is not much worse in life than watching someone you love so dearly go through something so horrible. I will say this, she was home, surrounded by her children and spent many hours talking on the phone to people in her life that she loved and was able to say her goodbyes. Pam’s two daughters were at her side in the room when she passed into glory.

    To have those moments were a true blessing and for that we are eternally grateful. Last night, we were sitting outside and saw the beautiful sky that I am certain she painted from the heavens above.

    All of your love, prayers and support were felt and so appreciated. We love you all and from the bottom of our hearts we thank you for being a support that we felt from near and far daily.

    With a heavy heart….

About this fundraiser

Our mom, Pam, is the most giving, simple, and loving person. She is a gifted RN- always the one caring for others and educating her patients and loved ones. She doesn’t talk about her own struggle with cancer very much. In fact, many people may not even be aware she has been battling chronic lymphocytic leukemia since late 2006. Unfortunately, fighting this type of leukemia for so long eventually means you‘ve run out of treatments and chemotherapies that this type of blood cancer responds to. Our mom is at that point. There is nothing left to help her except a bone marrow transplant. 

Of course, cancer treatment does not come cheaply. Certain aspects of treatment aren’t always covered, and many times, treatment is not local, either. This is the case our family is facing. The bone marrow transplant must take place at the University of Maryland in Baltimore, and Mom plus a Caregiver (one of us daughters, probably rotating) must live in Baltimore too for the 100 days immediately following the transplant, not counting her 30 days inpatient (minimum.). Because her immunity will be at nearly zero, she has to stay very near her doctors to be under their close care while she recovers after she receives the transplant. 

This process and the stay will come at a significant cost, even though we plan to live/stay in Baltimore for those 100 days as modestly as we possibly can. Maintaining a second household away from home, even temporarily, seems daunting and almost impossible, but we know we have to make this happen for Mom. She is the type of woman who would sacrifice anything to make it happen for someone else. 

If you knew any of us (Pam’s kids) as children or teens, chances are you spent time in our home and got to know Mom. She was every kid’s “other Mom“ growing up, and no kid was turned away.  In fact, it was “come as you are”. You were fed, loved, counseled… and mostly, you were free to just breathe and lay down your worries at Pam’s house. Well, now is the time you can give back. 

If you feel so inclined, please make a donation to this fundraiser and help us pull off this life saving transplant for our Mom. No gift is too small, and we pray that every person who gives is blessed back ten fold. 
 

Thank you! 

Fundraising team

Melissa Guido

Locust Grove, VA, USA

Organizer

Meghan Rediger

Team member

Heather Rediger

Team member

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